Monday, December 12, 2011

Monday Check In

Obsessing over: All the different Christmas cookies that I'm seeing decorated. I can't wait to do mine this weekend!
Working on: Psychology notes for my test on Wednesday. It's all common sense to me, but I need to get my grade up because I've been slacking off a little in that class (oops!)
Thinking about: How cold I am and how long it's gonna take me to warm up after my track practice. I really hate winter and cold weather.
Anticipating: This Sunday and saying goodbye to this guy for once and for all (hopefully...)
Drinking: A Naked Juice Mighty Mango smoothie
Wishing: My iPhone would go ahead and get here! It should hopefully come tomorrow, but I don't know if I'll be allowed to use it as soon as I get it or if I'll have to wait.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Thursday's Top Ten: Christmas Decoration

Christmas is quickly approaching and, with being the person in charge of decorating our house, I've decided to update my family's decorations to be a little more traditionally modern.


Number 10: Mixed Garland
I'm doing a sort of modern twist (literally) this year and twisting together strands of gold and green garland to go up the staircase in the foyer. I'm really excited to see how the contrast looks between the green and the gold.




http://www.casualliving.com/blog/Outside_Views/41636-Decorating_Outdoor_Spaces.php


Number 9: Red Bows
These have always been some of my favorite Christmas decorations for some reason. I love how simple but festive a big red bow can be. I use them up the stairs and they're on all the wreaths that hang in our windows.




http://www.largegiftbows.com/redstructuralbows.html


Number 8: Wreaths
Another classic holiday item, I love decorating the outside of the house with them because it gives it a classic look without going overboard with a big blow up Santa or too many lights. Also, I love how there are so many different types of wreaths that can be fit to a person's decorating style.




http://www.christmasdecorationcrafts.com/Wreaths.html


Number 7: Snowflakes
When I say that I love decorating with snowflakes, I'm not talking about just the homemade paper kind (although I do think that it's adorable if you have younger siblings to make those with them). I love putting up big sparkly snowflakes, in fact I have an entire Christmas tree decorated with just snowflakes and Barbie ornaments. I think that snowflakes offer a playful take on decorating for the holidays, and I love how sparkly they can be.




http://factorydirectcraft.com/catalog/products/1258_1835_1867-8436-11_white_glitter_snowflakes_pkg_of_3.html


Number 6: Nutcrackers
I come from a city in North Carolina that is huge in the arts, so every year the North Carolina School of the Arts puts on a big production of the Nutcracker downtown. I used to be fascinated by the production as a little girl, and I still love to see the costumes and sets that the students at the school make. Because of this, I've always loved putting out nutcrackers around Christmas because they really symbolize the holiday spirit to me.




http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nutcracker


Number 5: Moravian Stars
My ancestors were some of the original Moravians to settle the area that live in, so we always decorate with Moravian stars. I love to see how many people display them at Christmas time around our community, because we were originally settled by the Moravians. My favorite start though is the one that hangs in my church during the advent season, it's huge and completely handmade.




http://www.oldsalem.com/category/moravian_stars


Number 4: Candles
Maybe my love for candles around the holidays goes back to my Moravian roots and the fact that we use them at lovefeasts, but I love seeing holiday candles because they seem so warm and inviting to me for some reason. Also, I love the way that they can change the scent of a whole room and create such a pleasant atmosphere.




http://www.christmashungama.com/holiday-candles-wallpapers/


Number 3: A Nativity Scene
In my opinion, a nativity scene should be a part of everybody's Christmas decorations. They are great reminders towards the true meaning of the holiday. We display ours in the living room and I remember every year when I was growing up my mom and I would act out the Christmas story as we put up the nativity scene.




http://www.clowns4kids.com/christmas-Animals-for-Nativity-Scenes.php


Number 2: Christmas Lights
Christmas lights have always been some of my favorite decorations. I love how sparkly and bright they are, plus it's always fun to see how different people display them. It amazes me to see how many different things people can do with Christmas lights.




http://midlifebloggers.com/2010/12/06/immortality-and-christmas-lights/


Number 1: A Christmas Tree
This is of course probably the most traditional Christmas decoration of all time, but it's also an essential in my book. In my house we put up at least two trees every year, this year we might even put up three. While we have a fake tree, because our cat always knocked over our real one, I will always remember going to pick out a tree with my family and then decorating it. They are probably some of the most customizable decorations out there, and it's always fun to see how other families decorate theirs.




http://highcountryrealtors.org/category/lifestyle/

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Wednesday's Favorite: Fair Isle Sweaters


http://www.esquire.com/blogs/mens-fashion/fair-isle-sweaters-113010

With it finally beginning to get colder here in the South I've been looking for warm and cute clothes, so far my favorite piece of clothing that I've found is Fair Isle sweaters. I love how warm and cozy they are, they make me feel like I should be cuddled up by a fire place drinking hot cocoa, even when I'm sitting in a dull boring classroom.


http://www.fanpop.com/spots/teen-fashion/images/7907178/title/brandi-fair-isle-sweater-photo

My favorite part of these sweaters is that I can dress them up with a pair of jeans, some nice boots, and a bow in my hair, or I can dress them down with just some leggings and UGGS. Whatever way I choose to wear my sweater, I know that it offers a classic style while still keeping me warm and being functional.


http://media.photobucket.com/image/fair%20isle%20sweater/moclassics/patrick-ervell-fair-isle-sweater.jpg

Tuesday's Thoughts: Second Chances

Lately some things have been going on that have gotten me thinking about second chances, more specifically about how to decide if a person should get a second chance and, if they're lucky enough to deserve one, how many second chances a person should receive. I'm a strong believer in redemption, and I tend to like to see the best in people, but sometimes, you need to build a wall for people, and maybe not let them in as much, especially if they've done something to hurt you.


In my lifetime, I've been given plenty of second chances by people, and I've given people more second chances than they have probably deserved. When I'm trying to decide whether or not to allow someone back in, what I try to do is think about what kind of person they are. Was the fact that they screwed up or hurt me a one time thing? Or was it a reoccurring event? Another thing that I tend to consider is how much the person really means to me. As horrible as it sounds, I try to imagine what my life would be like if they weren't there; if it seems like it would be better with them gone, then that's it, they're gone, but if I can't imagine what life would be like without them, I let them come back in, but with a little bit more caution each time.


In the past couple of months, I've had two very difficult situations in which second chances were involved:


The first situation was with a girl who we'll call J. We've had our differences in the past, but during the end of the summer and the beginning of the school year, I let her back into my life completely. With it being field hockey season and all of our other friends busy with that everyday and most weekends, J and I became extremely close, so close in fact that I considered her to be my sister, and she had begun referring to me as the third sister in her family; however, as our friendship grew stronger, so did some tension. I'm not really sure what caused it, but she always seemed to be a little resentful of me for some reason in some odd way. She began snapping at me more and more often and soon enough she was telling me what we were doing each day after school, not to mention the fact that I had to drive her everywhere because she shared a car with her little sister. One day though, she texted me, extremely angrily, something along the lines of "we're going to the gym this afternoon. i have a lot of anger to get out." Just like any concerned friend, I was trying to figure out what was wrong, so I asked a friend of mine, who J claimed to be "in love" with and was in class with when she texted me, what had happened to her. He told me whatever story had happened, but I was still trying to get her to tell me the details. However, as I was texting her, that friend took my phone and tweeted about how me and him were having such a good time in math class together, something that he's done multiple times before. Apparently, this made J even more mad, because not only did she just stand me up at the gym that day, but the next day I got a text from her about how immature I was to think that the reason she was mad at me was because I was friends with this guy. I asked her to tell me what the real reason was, and that was when she snapped on me. J told me things that I would never imagine saying to someone who I considered to be my best friend, she threatened to spread made up rumors about me, and even to go tell my parents lies that they would believe. Later that night though, she called me and left a message saying how sorry she was and how she wanted to meet up and talk. 


In that situation, I never called her back. It's been about three months since J and I talked, and I'm completely fine with that. The second chance was not worth it for me; I didn't want to have to deal with the immaturity and drama that she brought along with her friendship. Our fight had gotten me to notice the changes that were happening in my personality, and I honestly was not proud of the bitch that I had become after hanging around with her so much.


The second situation that I've been involved in with second chances recently was one in which I was the one asking for another chance to be in my ex-boyfriend, turned probably one of my closest friend's


You see, that's the funny thing about second chances, they work both ways, and sometimes we forget that and consequently we forget to fix our mistakes and change our ways to make them work. Unfortunately, I may never be friends with P again, which is really a shame because he was the only guy I've met so far that I can completely open up to and just be myself with, and he's one of the people that I will always care the most about, no matter how many years have passed or how much drama we've been through. But sometimes, the fact that you love and care about a person isn't enough to get them to give you a second chance. Second chances are things that have to be earned, and even once you earn them, you have to keep working to keep them, they aren't something that should be taken for granted. Sometimes to earn a second chance you have to have perseverance in showing you've made a difference in your life; sometimes, they just take a little time or patience and then they'll come; but sometimes they never come, which is why any second chance you get, you should make the most of it.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Monday Check In

Obsessing over: This string quartet version of Semi-Charmed Life that I'm listening to, it's seriously amazing!
Working on: A math worksheet about percent of change.
Thinking about: Why Abercrombie hasn't called me back about my interview yet, I don't really want to work there though, so I'm not too worried about it.
Anticipating: Winter break, and the plan that my friend and I have to get me to be able to see this guy for one last time so that I can hopefully get over him finally.
Drinking: Water, that's all I ever drink anymore.
Wishing: My parent's would just go ahead and buy me an iPhone so that I can stop worrying about whether or not I'll get one for Christmas. I need a new iPod anyways, and I know that's the next phone I'm gonna get, so why not just go ahead and get me one? It would be cheaper in the long run since I already have the data plan that I would need.